Grammar Lesson #2
You may lay your work on the desk and even lie down on the couch while contemplating this second grammar lesson. Today we consider the proper use of personal pronouns. Remember these two terms: subjective and objective. A subjective pronoun does something. An objective pronoun has something done to it.
Thus,
I (subjective) hit the ball.
The ball hits me (objective).
This is easy enough, but we tend to trip up when we add another pronoun or use prepositions. For example, someone knows to say, "I like to play ping pong." That same person, however, might also say, "Her and I like to play ping pong." You, of course, know the answer is "she." If you get confused, simply try the sentence with one pronoun, and you most likely will know what to do.
What about prepositions (of, to, on, about, for...)? Treat them like verbs that do something to the pronoun.
Incorrect usage:
I hit the ball to Bob and she.
You have done so much for Willy and he.
I've asked Tom, on behalf of Sally and I, to say a few words.
Correct usage:
I hit the ball to Bob and her.
You have done so much for Willy and him.
I've asked Tom, on behalf of Sally and me, to say a few words.
Hopefully, this will be of help to they who want to improve themselves. Let Linda Boice know I am doing my duty. She and me tried to teach our students correctly. Occasionally, a sharp student might correct she and me in class, but not often. And if you are a sharp student, you will have already noted the three mistakes in this paragraph.